The other night, I went over to have tea with one of my students from class. We had a great, albeit quiet, evening together. She played Turkish and Chinese soap operas in the background while we ate our chocolate cake and Moroccan crepes.
I'm admittedly not so good with the small talk, but I tried. I asked about all five of her children. Memorized their names, ages, and current countries of residence. I "ooohhed" and "ahhed" over everything she made. And she sat in silence, just smiling at my attempts to fill the silence with words, words, words.
Later, I was talking about her to a friend of mine. My friend lived in Morocco this past year, and someone mentioned that the village of Anze is a village known for its quiet woman.
Well, guess where my student is from? Anze.
So, her village's one claim to fame is their uncharacteristically quiet women. Isn't that interesting? Anyway, my friend told me that it's best to just let her be silent and be silent with her.
"It isn't necessary to talk all the time," she said. "We Americans think we need to fill up silences, but she likes them. She's used to them."
Oh well, mental note for the next time, I guess. In the meantime, I've begun some basic Arabic lessons with another lady from class. I was planning to ask her to teach me all those practical phrases such as, "How's the weather in Morocco?" and "We're having lovely weather today!" and "Your cakes look delicious!" But scratch that. Not worth the mental strain!
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
A Sleeper in Class
Yesterday in class, I was trying my very hardest to teach, but everyone kept laughing and laughing. I discreetly checked my fly to see if it was down. I ran my tongue over my teeth to see if there was something caught in them. I hurried to the bathroom while they were working on an exercise to see if I'd smeared dry erase marker across my face (as I do often enough). But I could not figure out what was going on.
Later, we were having tea together, and I told Jan, the woman I work with, about the constant snickers. She asked one of her ladies (who speak French relatively well) to ask one of my ladies (who don't really understand questions in French at all) why everyone was laughing today.
So one lady asked another in Tachlhit. A discussion ensued.
And then, after it was over, one of my ladies put her head down on her palm and started making snoring noises. She then pointed to one of the ladies in my class who perpetually sleeps.
"They laughed because Aicha was sleeping," one of the ladies said.
"She always sleeps," I replied. "Nothing out of the ordinary."
But they all laughed so hard about the fact that Aicha slept through the whole class, that it almost seemed liked that really was the reason for the laughs. Still, later at home, I took a good long look at myself in the mirror, trying to figure out if there was another reason they still weren't telling me.
And I still don't know. But let's hope for less laughing next time, or I'm going to become paranoid!
Later, we were having tea together, and I told Jan, the woman I work with, about the constant snickers. She asked one of her ladies (who speak French relatively well) to ask one of my ladies (who don't really understand questions in French at all) why everyone was laughing today.
So one lady asked another in Tachlhit. A discussion ensued.
And then, after it was over, one of my ladies put her head down on her palm and started making snoring noises. She then pointed to one of the ladies in my class who perpetually sleeps.
"They laughed because Aicha was sleeping," one of the ladies said.
"She always sleeps," I replied. "Nothing out of the ordinary."
But they all laughed so hard about the fact that Aicha slept through the whole class, that it almost seemed liked that really was the reason for the laughs. Still, later at home, I took a good long look at myself in the mirror, trying to figure out if there was another reason they still weren't telling me.
And I still don't know. But let's hope for less laughing next time, or I'm going to become paranoid!
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Les Miserables...where it should be.
Guess who acquired tickets to see Les Miserables in Paris? (This is a somewhat rhetorical question...)
Monday, March 29, 2010
Venez pour la fete...
Saturday, one of the women I work with at Asnieres threw a party for the ladies in our classes. We talked about the party for almost a month before it happened. The anticipation built.
And Saturday afternoon, almost everyone came...literally. They came in their party dresses with their colorful head scarves. They brought cookies and cakes. They brought along daughters or sisters of friends. And my friend's house was packed. We packed nearly forty people in her little family room. We all smooshed together on the couch or sat knee-to-knee on the floor and chatted while we ate the hallal sausage they called Merguez, and the cookies, and the almonds, and the cakes...and the list goes on.
Then, after a while, the women all took hold of their pans and spoons, and started banging them together in time. And two of the women stood, tied scarves around their rear-ends, and danced. Not a waltz. Not a swing dance. We're talking Moroccan dancing--shaking the Northern hemisphere and shaking the Southern hemisphere in a way no one but a Moroccan can do. It seemed so strange to see the women do this. Normally, they're so proper. They sit ramrod straight in class, copying down everything I write on the board. They wear a hundred layers of clothes--a nice, practical black coat and a nice, practical black dress on top, but once they sit, you see the cartoon character socks and the colorful pajama pants that are lurking underneath. They take their turns going into a different room and praying on the same prayer mat. But they never dance. Until Saturday. And then, oh my, did they dance. They moved and shook and vibrated and danced until one of the two fell on the ground laughing so hard that she spent the next ten minutes making sure her eye makeup wasn't too smudged. It was a great time.
So, now, we're just counting down until the next one!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Spring and Strikes
I went to the prefecture today, and I received another carte de sejour--another residency card-- so I'm good to go until next February. Good news, huh?
In other news, today is a day of strikes.
Yesterday, I was running onto the platform to get my train, and I saw that ominous white paper, plastered to the wall, reading Greve. Strike. Not my favorite word.
I never heard what the strike was for, or rather, what the strikers were hoping to obtain. But this year, it's turned out that every time I've had to go to the prefecture, there's been a strike. Interesting, eh?
In other news, today is a day of strikes.
Yesterday, I was running onto the platform to get my train, and I saw that ominous white paper, plastered to the wall, reading Greve. Strike. Not my favorite word.
I never heard what the strike was for, or rather, what the strikers were hoping to obtain. But this year, it's turned out that every time I've had to go to the prefecture, there's been a strike. Interesting, eh?
But today, all the trains were, as they say in French, perturbed...I'll leave you to guess what they mean by that. The E line was running amok, as were the A and B lines.
And today, I set off to buy my fiscal stamps from the public treasury (the official way of paying the government for another year of living in la Belle France), and everyone here in the office said, "Oh, don't even bother going. The people at the treasure definitely won't be working--it's the greve!"
I went anyway, praying it'd be open, so I could get my residency card. Thankfully, the people at the public treasury were indeed working.
Although, they seemed to be the only ones. The schools in the area were on strike. The kids were all sitting on the stone walls outside the grocery store, drinking Cokes, eating chips, throwing pebbles at the homeless saxophone player on the corner by the supermarket. The market, which is generally deserted on a Tuesday morning, was choked full of people. And the streets were flooded with cars.
And while the strikes normally beat the life out of me, today, I found it charming. When the sun is out and the daffodils are pushing up against the earth, springing to life one more time, streets full of people seems just about perfect. Spring has sprung.
And today, I set off to buy my fiscal stamps from the public treasury (the official way of paying the government for another year of living in la Belle France), and everyone here in the office said, "Oh, don't even bother going. The people at the treasure definitely won't be working--it's the greve!"
I went anyway, praying it'd be open, so I could get my residency card. Thankfully, the people at the public treasury were indeed working.
Although, they seemed to be the only ones. The schools in the area were on strike. The kids were all sitting on the stone walls outside the grocery store, drinking Cokes, eating chips, throwing pebbles at the homeless saxophone player on the corner by the supermarket. The market, which is generally deserted on a Tuesday morning, was choked full of people. And the streets were flooded with cars.
And while the strikes normally beat the life out of me, today, I found it charming. When the sun is out and the daffodils are pushing up against the earth, springing to life one more time, streets full of people seems just about perfect. Spring has sprung.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
A Little Bit of This ; A Little Bit of That...
It's been a while since I've written, because my beloved cousin, Jill, was here for two weeks during our winter break, and Jill and I saw every cathedral and art museum in Paris (with a few exceptions...), and then, took a weekend tour of Florence, Italy and the nearby Cinque Terre. Wooonderful.
So, now I'm back in the Paris area--back to classes, back proof reading other peoples' articles for the organization's newsletters, and back to blogging. (Or so I hope!)
First off, I'm now an Aunt. You can probably tell by the changes in my writing style. Something about my word choice definitely screams "aunt", right?
And secondly, I've made friends with a mail-order bride, which has me very excited. I ran into this girl through a friend of mine about a week ago. She's 20 years old, and her 23 year old husband's family decided they wanted their son to marry a girl from the "old country." The girl moved over from Morocco and was married a few weekends ago. I've been over to her house twice now, which is quite the feat, because she lives on the top floor of an apartment building sans elevator. :s She's been coming to French class, learning French little by little. It's fun to finally see someone "young" come to class...not to insult any of my ladies, but most of them are 40s, 50s, 60s, and so, to see someone more in my age range has me thrilled.
And thirdly, I have a brief story that made me laugh a little. Today, I finished classes at Telegraphe, got on my metro, and was headed to the main train station. I saw one of the ladies from class on the metro, and she made her way over to sit with me (if you've read my earlier posts, this woman is the compulsive story teller). She sat down, and began explaining how she was "so African" when she moved to France twenty years ago, and how she had to learn to speak French correctly and act more "French" in order to get herself a job as an agent of L'Oreal products. ("I hate hair," she tells me on the train. "Oh?" I say. She nods, "But you have to live, don't you?") This woman has very good French. She speaks clearly, doesn't have a heavy accent, and in my opinion, has a pretty huge vocabulary.
"Well," you probably are thinking, "she has lived in France twenty years."
And that really doesn't mean much. My ladies over in Gennevilliers area (Little Morocco) have been here twenty to thirty years, and they're still in my beginner class saying things like, "I lots like you."
So, I asked this woman on the metro, this compulsive story teller, what her secret was to learning French.
"Night clubs," she replied. "Lots and lots of night clubs."
"Oh?"
"Yes," she continued. "You get the right combination of loud music, sweat, and movement, and it's like magic--poof! You know French."
I nodded and thanked her and moved right along.
So, there you have it--the secret to learning French is night clubs. Who knew?
So, now I'm back in the Paris area--back to classes, back proof reading other peoples' articles for the organization's newsletters, and back to blogging. (Or so I hope!)
First off, I'm now an Aunt. You can probably tell by the changes in my writing style. Something about my word choice definitely screams "aunt", right?
And secondly, I've made friends with a mail-order bride, which has me very excited. I ran into this girl through a friend of mine about a week ago. She's 20 years old, and her 23 year old husband's family decided they wanted their son to marry a girl from the "old country." The girl moved over from Morocco and was married a few weekends ago. I've been over to her house twice now, which is quite the feat, because she lives on the top floor of an apartment building sans elevator. :s She's been coming to French class, learning French little by little. It's fun to finally see someone "young" come to class...not to insult any of my ladies, but most of them are 40s, 50s, 60s, and so, to see someone more in my age range has me thrilled.
And thirdly, I have a brief story that made me laugh a little. Today, I finished classes at Telegraphe, got on my metro, and was headed to the main train station. I saw one of the ladies from class on the metro, and she made her way over to sit with me (if you've read my earlier posts, this woman is the compulsive story teller). She sat down, and began explaining how she was "so African" when she moved to France twenty years ago, and how she had to learn to speak French correctly and act more "French" in order to get herself a job as an agent of L'Oreal products. ("I hate hair," she tells me on the train. "Oh?" I say. She nods, "But you have to live, don't you?") This woman has very good French. She speaks clearly, doesn't have a heavy accent, and in my opinion, has a pretty huge vocabulary.
"Well," you probably are thinking, "she has lived in France twenty years."
And that really doesn't mean much. My ladies over in Gennevilliers area (Little Morocco) have been here twenty to thirty years, and they're still in my beginner class saying things like, "I lots like you."
So, I asked this woman on the metro, this compulsive story teller, what her secret was to learning French.
"Night clubs," she replied. "Lots and lots of night clubs."
"Oh?"
"Yes," she continued. "You get the right combination of loud music, sweat, and movement, and it's like magic--poof! You know French."
I nodded and thanked her and moved right along.
So, there you have it--the secret to learning French is night clubs. Who knew?
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